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Adult Dating Profiles

Read any posts out there about adult dating and the first thing you see is the echo of ‘girls never write to me!”

Guys, this isn’t brain surgery. And I really want to make this work for you. In theory adult dating is an amazing way to get a group of over and under sexed people together. But it seems to be in the approach where it gets all muddled.

First off – your adult dating profile. Think of it as being in a bar and a woman catches your eye. Do you want her to see someone interesting and pants droppable or do you want to seem like the creepy little lurker jacking himself off in the corner?

Let’s start with pictures. A picture says a thousand words. What words do you want to her to think of?

Keep the one eyed bandit clothed in pictures. Really. Truly. Please. Keep Mr. Winkles under wrap. Yes, it’s an adult dating site. With adult content. But when I’m going through someone’s pictures and I stumble onto a penis it’s akin to a drive-by flashing. You may as well add a comb over, black socks and trench coat and call it a day.

Keep your pictures friendly. Smiling is good. You with a group of friends is good and also shows that you aren’t completely socially inept. Any funky travel pics can be a good opener later on. Plus it looks like you have more interests than only trying to pick up on adult dating sites.

If for some reason you have a Sears portrait file it away with ‘pics of my blue veined piccolo’ and never ever speak of it again.

Ever.

After you have wowed her with your pictures it doesn’t hurt to write a little something. It does not have to be a 10 page character study on your lifelong dreams. But a paragraph or two will make you seem a little more human.

Leave the extremely pornographic for later. She gets it. She knows why you’re on an adult dating site. But dude seriously, have a little dignity. We can sniff out desperation from miles away.